Saturday, May 9, 2009

Response to Stripper at a Bachelor Party

I agree, there is nothing wrong with a stripper at bachelor party so long as everything is kept reasonable. By this I mean that the stripper puts on a show, stripping and possible lapdances. I believe that there is nothing wrong with a man or woman admiring another person's body, naked or clothed, and that this sort of attraction is natural. I can see where the wife may not agree with this, but inevitably her husband is most likely going to see another naked woman after they get married, in a magazine, in a movie, in porn, or (hopefully not) if he decides to spend time with another woman. This control the future wife is trying to exert on her husband is based on the basic emotion of fear. This fear comes idea that she is 'not good enough' for him and that he will 'find something better', and so much fear that she believes he could find it in the stripper at this bachelor party. I mean, after all, there was that hit song "I'm in love with a stripper," even the media supports her fear. Anyway, what I'm trying to say that the real source of the problem is within the wife, not the husband. The source of the problem is the wife's fear that is causing her to be so upset, and the idea of her husband having a bachelor party with a stripper is torturing her emotions. Now the poor husband just has to decide what to do with his party.

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